"Oh you have a crush on him, thats cute!So do you text alot?" -unimportant person
"No i dont text him? If i like a guy i want to talk to him in person not over damn text messages!!" -Me
I really dont know what it is these days but i really feel like there is a large dip in the amount of romance that comes in dating and such now a days. Yes i am only be in high school. But the classiness of chivalry just gone out the window. Personally i dont find any romance when it comes to having a boy text you. Now a days if you like some you are supposed to get there number and text it up and hang out.
I mean god damn i want to be asked out on a date to my face not from men who hides behind technology. I personally do not get particularly excited when a guy asks me out over a text or facebook.( poor people who have ever been asked out over twitter) Im not sure if this kind of things bothers other women but i feel like the true romantics feel a disgust to the "new" ways of things. What ever happened to courting? Getting to know someone? Taking your time to fall in love.
Not to mention couples who start dating for a week and claim to be madly in love with each other. I mean really, those poor pathetic saps they will probably be in shock when they break up next week. Or those people who will give it up for any body. Its just sad to see that this is how our society gradually becoming.
But i am sure that the true romantics will keep things alive. Because i want to fall in love the old fashion way!
Amen, I totally agree with you!!! As much as I love texting it just gives people an excuse to not actually talk to each other and what kind of relationship can you have with a phone in between you?? It may be the romantic in me but I will never get old of chivalry, roses & hand written letters.
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